Why do we Become Sexually Incompatible Overcome

Sexual incompatibility is an issue which impairs many relationships. Sexual incompatibility can leave us feeling lonely, frustrated and depressed. These feelings harm our well-being. Unresolved sexual incompatibility creates tension in our relationships and leads to partners drifting apart and even embarking on affairs. Sexual incompatibility can result in the irretrievable breakdown of a relationship.

Why do we become sexually incompatible?

In the early days of a relationship, we usually can’t get enough of our partner. We are charged with sexual desire and the need to satisfy and impress our partners with our sexual prowess. Our initial lust is further heightened by the surge of the neurotransmitter dopamine which increases feelings of desire and arousal. As we settle down into a steady relationship and become more familiar with our partner, love and companionship tend to oust lust and longing and our dopamine levels drop.

Most of us experience temporary periods of loss of libido. Common causes of loss of libido include; pregnancy, childbirth, extreme stress, hormonal changes, depression, ageing, and illness.

Sexual incompatibility can arise when one partner experiences an unexpected loss of libido, lack of sexual desire which continues for an extended period or frequent periods of low libido.

Qualms over our Sexual compatibility may have loomed at the start of the relationship. These niggles are often dismissed with the expectation of becoming more sexually compatible over time. The roots of sexual incompatibility often lie in the differing beliefs, backgrounds, expectations and desires of each partner.

Signs you are not sexually compatible

You and your partner are not turned on by the same things

You don’t enjoy the same positions or tempo as your partner

You are rarely in the mood for sex at the same time as your partner

One of you is more adventurous, dominant or submissive than the other

Why hypnotherapy is an effective method of increasing sexual compatibility

Hypnotherapy addresses beliefs, thinking and feelings in the subconscious mind. Sexual incompatibility may be a result of unresolved events, accumulated stress or habits which have formed over time.

Hypnotherapy relaxes the conscious mind whilst simultaneously stimulating the unconscious mind. The unconscious mind is targeted with positive suggestions that change thoughts feelings and behaviour.